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President's message        Sexuality Task Force    

Ethics of Sex (Book Review)        Words from the Bishop

RIC Survey        Events of Interest

 

Annual Message from Our President
It was a year of preparation

by Steven Krefting, president of the board


The watchword for this past year was "preparation." The San Francisco Bay Area chapter of Lutherans Concerned has just emerged from an intensely busy period during which we hosted a regional, then a national conference of RIC churches. Embracing and supporting this concept, Lutherans Concerned/North America has begun plans for the next national RIC conference in 2004.

Our board had a productive planning retreat in January, finished off by a tasty Swabischen dinner served by our host and treasurer, Markus Mueller. As I reviewed notes from board meetings, I was happy to note that a number of ideas discussed last fall and at our January retreat came into being in the course of this year. Among the most meaningful of these was the establishment of a closer relationship with Pacific Lutheran Theological Seminary. Professor Gary Pence has joined the LC/SFBA board as a liaison to the seminary. Earlier this year, we and others expressed concerns about the disturbing anti-gay statements and activities of the PLTS chaplain. PLTS leadership heard us—her contract was not renewed, and she has left the school.

Our traditional involvement in the annual Gay Pride parade was enhanced this year by a pre-parade worship service held jointly with the Episcopalian group Oasis, with whom we marched. Our chapter also placed an ad in the parade magazine Inside Pride.

Thanks to the tireless leadership of board members Max Kirkeberg and Pr. Chuck Lewis, Lutherans were organized to participate in San Francisco’s annual AIDS Walk. And . . . these Lutherans were three of the top five religious group fund raisers this year.

Five members of our chapter, three of whom are on our board, attended the 2002 Lutherans Concerned national assembly in Baltimore. One chapter member, Janine Jansen, was elected co-chair of Lutherans Concerned/North America, and another, Markus Mueller, was elected new regional director for our region.

Two new RIC churches were added to the roster from the Bay Area this year, thanks to the dedicated work of RIC chair Joe Haletky. Plans are underway for outreach to the remaining non-RIC Bay Area churches. Joe also conducted the chapter’s first survey of Bay Area RIC churches, to learn about how they are making their Reconciling in Christ welcome known (see RIC Survey).

This past year, our board focused on laying the groundwork for our next contribution to the Lutheran dialogue on sexual minority issues. Currently we are seeking opportunities to be a joint sponsor of events relating to the ELCA’s national sexuality study. In the near future we plan to meet with David Mullen, the new bishop of the Sierra Pacific Synod, to discuss plans for the sexuality study and offer our chapter resources.

We have an exciting membership event in the works, and we are designing a new chapter membership brochure (thanks again to Max Kirkeberg). Our superb newsletter producer/editor/author/ designer deluxe Judy Streets has added “webmaster” to her long list of titles, for which I am eternally grateful. We all thank Brian Knittel for making our website a reality and securing our domain name.

We were sorry to bid farewell to co-secretary, Karl Arasmith, who brought his experience of long involvement with LC/North America to the board, along with many other gifts. We know his new ministry in La Crosse, WI will enrich the people there. I am personally thankful for the continued faithful participation of our other co-secretary (now secretary!), Debby Elliott, as well as vice-president Barbara Lembcke.

Finally, we have expanded our board for the coming year as we look to a future focused on increasing and strengthening the network of Bay Area RIC churches, as well as our own membership, and on being an active participant in the ELCA’s sexuality study.

 
Words from a Member of the ELCA Sexuality Task Force
Striving to be all ears

and not all mouth

by Pr. Lucy Kolin


You may be wondering what we’ve been up to. And then again, you may not. You may feel curious and even hopeful about the work we are doing. And then again, you may not. Some of us are just very doubtful that studies can lead to anything! And our various experiences in or at the hands of the Church also influences our perspectives on these studies and what they can offer the Church . . . and us.

Whatever the measure of your personal hope, anxiety, doubt, or suspicion, let me say that we task force members are approaching our work with interest, energy, modesty, hopefulness, and confidence in the Spirit’s accompaniment and guidance. We know that the Spirit “blows where she wills” and pray that she will also breathe into and through us.

I personally believe that what happens in the task force, how we regard, relate to, and treat one another, is a microcosm of what could happen in the larger Church. We are a diverse group in all manner of ways, people who ordinarily might not be drawn to each other even if we lived in the same geography. Yet we have been drawn together. So it seems the Spirit may be imagining for us something more than we had imagined or asked for ourselves. We rely on the gifts of the Spirit prayed for us at baptism and confirmation and also on the prayers of the Church for power to do what the Church has asked of us and what we ourselves have resolved: to be trustworthy, to speak honestly, to ask tough, unrelenting questions of Scripture, the tradition, the ELCA, and one other, to be modest about our ability to know the mind of God but bold in our desire to have the mind of Christ—and to be merciful and forgiving to each other whenever we fail.

Our work has already required of us massive amounts of reading and listening. And there is more to come! We are constantly trying to imagine ourselves into others’ hearts and minds, pieties and positions, so that when we speak and write and present ourselves we may do so in ways that are neither patronizing nor distancing. We want to be theologically faithful and thorough and yet not hide behind unexamined theological assumptions or jargon.

There are lots of ways you can follow the study process and participate in it. For example, you can read the updates on the ELCA web site or organize a group to use the conversation piece, Journey Together Faithfully. (If you haven’t seen it, you can download it from the web site.) The next batch of study materials, which will deal more directly with matters of same-sex blessings and rostering of gay men and lesbians in committed relationships, will be available in the fall of 2003.

You may have heard that consultations are being arranged for the February and April task force meetings, so that we can listen and talk face to face with representatives of various communities who can inform our work. (The various constituencies will select their own representatives.) Lutherans Concerned is one of the constituencies we have invited. In all this work, we are striving to be all ears, and not all mouth. (Apologies to St. Paul and his “body” metaphor!)

Also, did you know that our task force meetings are open? So if you will be in Chicago during one of our next sessions (February 7-9 or April 25-27), please contact the office of Dr. James Childs, director of the study, to arrange to sit in. At our September meeting, for example, a number of students from the Lutheran School of Theology at Chicago were in attendance.

The task force as a whole is very interested in what you are thinking and wondering. You can address us all on at faithfuljourney@elca.org on the ELCA’s website. Or you can talk to me directly by sending an e-mail to: lucyk@pacbell.net. I may not be able to respond to every e-mail individually, but perhaps I can make a more general response in a future issue of this newsletter. Thanks!
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Pastor Lucy Kolin serves at Resurrection Lutheran Church in Oakland, CA, and she is a member of the task force for the ELCA’s Sexuality Study. (www.elca.org/faithfuljourney)

 

Book Review
The ethics of sex

A review by Gary Pence, Professor of Pastoral Theology
Pacific Lutheran Theological Seminary

 

The speech of Christian sexual ethics seems often to have been moved by unchristian fears and fantasies. It has served to sanction old designs rather than to announce good news. Instead of confessing yet more sexual sins, or preaching yet again against them, we might want to confess the sins we have committed in presuming to teach sex as we have. We might want to consider our bad habits, our vices, when it comes to setting forth a Christian ethics of sex. (p. 5)

You get the drift here of the approach Mark Jordan, a religion professor at Emory University, will take in his new book, The Ethics of Sex. The book jacket describes the author as “part of a group of theologians who represent a concerted attempt to reconceptualize and re-engender Christian theology from non-heterosexual, marginal perspectives.” Already praised for his earlier books, The Invention of Sodomy in Christian Theology and The Silence of Sodom: Homosexuality in Modern Catholicism, Jordan here broadens his view to encompass the whole landscape of Christian responses to human sexuality. It is not an altogether pretty picture.

Jordan begins with the uses and abuses of scriptural authorities. Although the biblical references to sex contain multiple images and principles reflecting different circumstances and different preoccupations and although the interpretations of these references by Christians through the centuries have displayed as much diversity and contradiction as the texts themselves, each Christian group has nonetheless portrayed its own interpretation of Scripture as an authoritative reading of a monolithic Christian sexual ethic that never in fact existed. “A person may justify a specific interpretation by appeal to Christian tradition, but in fact the ‘tradition’ is no more than the latest communiqué from a denominational agency.” Jordan appeals for Christians to be “faithfully multilingual” in their use of Scripture, to follow secular scholarship by giving serious attention to “what a passage says, why the passage says it, how the passage is traditionally assigned to a topic, and whether the passage is normative for contemporary Christians.”

As Jordan demonstrates, the core of the problem with traditional Christian sexual ethics doesn’t lie in the Bible itself, however, but in the anti-erotic idealization of virginity as a “new life beyond sex” which came to dominate Christian sensibilities and continues to influence Christian attitudes to this day. While renunciation of sexuality altogether was commended as the Christian ideal, marriage—a second-class status—was reduced to an inferior state grudgingly tolerated for the majority of Christians, who were incapable of sustained abstinence from sexual activity. Sex within marriage was excusable, forgivable, and yet severely circumscribed. Referring to “sins of nature” and “sins of Sodom,” Jordan notes that “the two categories have included, in one author or another, every erotic or quasi-erotic act that can be performed by human bodies except penile-vaginal intercourse between two partners who are not primarily seeking pleasure and who do not intend to prevent conception.”

Jordan provides evidence that even Luther and Calvin succumbed to theological suspicions of sex, even within marriage. For Luther marriage redeems sex from its fallen condition and can serve good ends, both physical and spiritual. Yet even within marriage sex must be guarded with cautious restraint, for immoderate exercise of sex within marriage is as coarse, filthy, defiling, and demonic as he assumes unredeemed sex outside of marriage to be.

With such views controlling Christian understandings of sexuality, it is hardly surprising that homosexuality, masturbation, and any sexual activity except conventional heterosexual intercourse have been viewed by most Christians with discomfort and suspicion, if not outright condemnation. Jordan asks, “Where is a religion that begins with such a strong critique of human sexual life to find principles for constructive teaching of it?” “We should notice,” he writes, “how little positive instruction Christian theology has traditionally given about married sex. There is no Christian pillow book or Kama Sutra, no Christian saint is revered for attaining the vision of God through disciplined erotic refinement.” “Theological shame has corrupted or determined the language of sex.”

Near the end of his book, Jordan poses an alternative vision of what might have been:

an alternative history of Christian literature. In this imagined history, an early commitment both to God’s goodness in creation and to the transfiguration of human bodies promised by the Lord’s resurrection would lead to the cultivation of erotic genres. Theologians would regard a rich and detailed language of sexual love as an index of their fidelity to God’s incarnation. From this patristic period, we would inherit exhortations to sexual discovery, rules for conducting it, and public letters of sexual encouragement or advice. From this Scholastic period, we would still have a vast Christian compendium of sexual arts, which we would count as one of the most authoritative works in moral theology, meriting generations of commentary. Our contemporary theological schools would vie in providing interesting departures from it.

Such a history is still open to us, he writes, in the writings of the Christian mystics and the language of prayer, and the future appears hopeful. “Who would have imagined, two decades ago, that an introduction to the Christian ethics of sex would be written by an ‘unrepentant homosexual’? For that matter, who would have imagined that church blessings for lesbian and gay unions would be a matter of debate? Or that gays and lesbians would be serving proudly in the churches of many denominations with the full support of their congregations?”

Jordan’s handy volume is a well documented, often riveting historical account of why Christians continue to be so exercised over sexual values and practices even today. Yet even within that often dismal story are the seeds for tomorrow’s hope. Jordan is to be thanked for providing both.

Survey of RIC Congregations
How do they show
their welcome?

by Joseph Haletky, RIC co-chair
 


Recently, we polled the 25 RIC congregations in the San Francisco Bay Area on the ways that they express their RIC-ness, that is to say, what they do in their ministries that shows that members of sexual minorities are welcome and fully accepted as members of the body of Christ. We had responses from 14 congregations, a very good return as such polls go.

The most gratifying result of the poll was the realization that of the churches responding, most have not simply passed a resolution of welcome and left it at that. Most do actively declare their welcoming status in both word and deed. Of course, it is to be expected that those churches who take the time to respond to a questionnaire would tend to be the ones most active in the ministry being inquired about. One can hope that some of the eleven churches that didn’t reply would have answered the survey questions affirmatively.

Printed welcomes
Two questions were about the identification of the church as a RIC congregation. Ten of the 14 identify themselves as RIC in their Sunday bulletin or newsletter. Ten (though not necessarily the same 10) post a plaque or certificate in the narthex or parish hall. One additionally mentioned their website. Comment: these are rather easy steps to take—if you do not have a certificate to post or would like a sample bulletin/newsletter notice, please contact us and take that candle out from under the bushel.

Inclusivity in worship
Three questions related to worship practices. In 13 out of 14 congregations, lesbian/gay issues and presence are included regularly in prayers and sermons. Twelve out of 14 congregations use inclusive language in the

liturgy. Somewhat surprising, and very gratifying, was the fact that 12 out of 14 churches reported that their pastor was available for celebrating the union of committed same-sex couples.

Event participation
Three questions referred to two events in which Lutherans Concerned participates. Nine churches said that members had marched with Lutherans Concerned in the annual Gay Pride parade. Eleven churches had participated and raised funds for the AIDS Walk. Only 3 had sponsored a team for the AIDS Walk, however. The other 8 evidently “piggy-back” upon the existing teams. All the same, it surprised me that such a high percentage of churches from such a wide area do participate in such centralized events.

Financial support
The final two questions were about the relationship between the congregation and Lutherans Concerned. Eight reported that members of the congregation were active members or supporters of Lutherans Concerned. Three said no, and 3 said they didn’t know whether any church members supported Lutherans Concerned. Only 4 congregations reported that their church budget supported Lutherans Concerned. Here is definitely an area for improvement among our RIC churches! Lutherans Concerned accomplishes a lot on a very small budget. How much more could be accomplished if more people became active members and if more of our RIC churches witnessed to their commitment by even a token amount within their benevolence budgets. ‚

 


Words from the bishop . . .

Some may wonder, in my commitment to be in all sixty-five synods my first two years in office . . . why then am I now in my fourth visit to Sierra Pacific in eleven months, two of those being here at PLTS? Well, you know on election night we have the analysts that look at bellwether precincts. I have come to think that there are bellwether synods and bellwether institutions that are clear indicators of the future of this church with which I have been called to lead, and I am in the midst of those today.
                 —Bishop Mark Hanson

In his sermon of 9/20/02 at the 50th anniversary of Pacific Lutheran Theological Seminary

 

 


EVENTS OF INTEREST
 


October 27, 2002 (Sunday) - 3:00 p.m. Installation of Pr. David Peters at Atonement Lutheran Church, 9242 Kiefer Blvd. in Sacramento, CA. Bishop David Mullen will preside and Bishop Emeritus Robert Mattheis will preach.

November 6—10, 2002 “Creating Change 2002”—National Gay and Lesbian Task Force 15th Annual Conference (DoubleTree Jantzen Beach Hotel, Portland, OR) See details on their website (www.ngltf.org).

February 7- 9, 2003 at Lutheran Center, Chicago, IL. Task force for the ELCA Studies on Sexuality will meet. Scheduled for this meeting are consultations with invited constituencies. This is an open meeting; observers are welcome. Contact www.elca.org/faithfuljourney/.

Upcoming LC/SFBA Board Meetings:
October 20, 2002 - 2 pm
November 17, 2002 - 2 pm
December 15, 2002 - 2 pm

Board meetings are open to all. They are at St. Mark's Lutheran Church, 1101 O'Farrell Street in San Francisco. There is free parking in the St. Mark's lot.

New ELCA Book on Homosexuality
A book tentatively titled Faithful Conversation: Christian Perspectives on Homosexuality is scheduled for publication by Augsburg-Fortress in February 2003. The book, commissioned some time ago by the eight ELCA seminary presidents through the ELCA Division for Ministry, will contain a series of essays written by Lutheran seminary professors and edited by
Dr. James Childs, director of the ELCA Sexuality Study. Childs described the essays as “very readable and yet very substantive.” He suggested that they will be “an excellent complement” to other study materials being prepared by the sexuality task force.

Now available from InfoX
Ministry with Sexual Minority Youth
is a 10-part study on ministering to sexual minority youth. This is a comprehensive package complete with a leader's guide,
7 VHS tapes, and a floppy disk with supplemental materials. Cost is $85 + $6 S&H. Available at www.lcna.org/infox.

Is Ex-gay a False Hope?
is a powerful video that refutes the promises and principles of the ex-gay ministry movement. Cost of video (15 min.) is $12.00 + S&H. Available at www.lcna.org/infox.